There is profound beauty in the roots of Memorial Day. Long before it became a federal long weekend, this day was known simply as Decoration Day. Emerging from the heavy hearts of a nation in mourning, this tradition took root after the Civil War. It was built on a singular truth: loved ones may be lost, but their sacrifice remains evergreen as long as we choose to remember.

The Evolution of a Nation’s Gratitude

Following the end of the Civil War, the loss was overwhelming. To cope with the loss, the community started to decorate the headstones of the fallen troops with flowers.

In 1868, the leader of an organization for Northern Civil War veterans officially proclaimed May 30th as Decoration Day. Late May is perfect for flowers to be in full bloom nationwide.

When WWI happened, it was the first time the nation faced such casualties on a global scale. After 1918, they felt that honoring the lost during the Civil War wasn’t enough; they wanted to include everyone who had ever been lost in action.

In 1967, federal law formally changed the name to Memorial Day.

In 1971, the Uniform Monday Holiday Act was passed. This made Memorial Day a federal holiday and moved the holiday to the last Monday in May to ensure that there would be a three-day weekend

How to Make Your Memorial Day Meaningful
  • The National Moment of Remembrance: At 3:00 PM local time, we invite the nation to pause for a minute of silence. It unites the country in a single, collective heartbeat of reflection.
  • Visit the Chaves County Veterans War Memorial in Roswell, NM located at the courthouse. Honor their memory by placing floral tributes and flags.
  • Research a Local Hero: Pick a name from a town memorial and spend time learning about their life and service. Honoring a ‘real person’ rather than just a ‘name’ creates a much deeper connection to the holiday.
  • Memorial Day Flag Etiquette: Display the flag at half-staff from sunrise until noon. Then full-mass for the remainder of the day.
  • Wear a Red Poppy: Join a century-old tradition inspired by the poem ‘In Flanders Fields.’ Look for these official memorial flowers being distributed by veterans’ organizations like the VFW or American Legion
The Heart of the Matter

Memorial Day is a bridge between the past and the present. It’s a day to pause, to thank, and to remember that freedom is a shared inheritance. No matter how you choose to spend your Monday, take one minute at 3:00 PM to honor the fallen. They gave their all; it is our sacred duty to ensure they are never forgotten.